Friday, November 21, 2008

Caprice of fate

So here am on a saturday morning posting my first blog. I wanted to do this for a while but never really got round to doing it.But fate has its own way of fulfilling our demands. So think twice before hoping and wishing even to yourself because you never know how and when your wish might come true. Infact it'll come and bite you in the ass just when you're least expecting it.

So cut to a couple of months back when i thought my glass was half empty and nothing seemed to swing my way. While i was grappling with a sucky work life and crashing MBA dreams, i often found myself complaining about lack of time to do things i love doing. Reading, for instance had taken a back seat.

But tough times don't last forever and by some quirk of fate the MBA dream materialized into reality. The timing seemed perfect. All of a sudden life was smiling back at me. But i've learnt to take all good things with a pinch of salt. It all seemed too good to be true. I would have loved to believe i had worked hard for it and deserved every bit of it. But i had learnt better than that in the last few years of my adult life.

Of course i had expected a glitch somewhere along the way but a hurdle still seemed far fetched.
I think i underestimated the twists and turns there are in this long windy road called life. It turned around so fast that now i have all the time in the world. But life isn't cruel. Its got plenty of hoops for us to jump. But thats where the fun lies. Everyone loves a happy ending. Happy endings are boring. A bit of calamity, now thats the stuff that makes it interesting.

So whoever said "No one can escape the caprice of fate" wasn't kidding. So even though MBA dreams are lurking somewhere in the background, for now the glass is still half full. Unless ofcourse destiny decides to take another unexpected turn and catch me on unfamiliar territory again.

8 comments:

Karan said...

I'm glad to see that you are off to a good start on your break. Blogging is something you always wanted to do. You have an gift of writing Geetika. Kudos! Keep it up!

As far as life and fate goes-Man proposes, god disposes! But you're right, happy endings are no fun, you need fate to spice things up a little!

10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react. The recent turn of events may well turn to be a blessing in disguise. You can use the time to do whatever you claimed you had less time for, read, dance, travel, educate yourself, give the CFA in June which will only help you ace your class at your B-school. There will be so many people out there jealous coz of the position you are in! So live it up woman!

I wish you luck in your "pursuit of happiness". I think once you find that your glass might looking a little less empty..Stay positive!

Carry on blogging!
Cheers!

Karan said...

In addition, your positive attitude towards life now is commendable. Just don't undermine your hard work and achievements, i mean you really worked hard at your job for the last 2 years, putting up with some nut-cases along the way, you studied hard for a lot of MBA entrance examinations and then SP clicked. Life kept throwing up new challenges, you kept fighting them, and inspite of going thru periods of low confidence along the way you came out on top, the hallmark of a champion!Hehe! Life is being kind to you now for your due dilligence. You are no one to decide whether you deserve it or not. Someone up there is already handling that bit ;-)

Seshadri said...

as karan rightly put it...u have earned this admit, along with 2 years of ur hard work..use the time for building ur profile, if u r fin-oriented things like CFA wud really make a gr8 profile.
dark clouds dont always mean gloom; they sprinkle those tiny drops of happiness too, over everyone.. make the most of ur time and smile it off...

Sam said...

hey babe.. firstly congratulations on ur first blog!! Its nice to see you taking these things with a smile and being +ve about it.. looks like ur glass is filling up.. ;)
Well God does not shut the door unless he opens a window!! chillax dude.. enjoy some more time with us..
Take Care.. Love u!!

Unknown said...

Hey! Suprised? Nice beginning to blogging. Keep it up! Have your spirits high and things will turn the way you want them to. Enjoy the break. Do all the things you wanted to do. Relax!!! Chill!!!
This is the best and possibly the largest break you could give to yourself. So, make the best of it.
Love
Deepak & Arti

Unknown said...

Well done guddu, great work with the blog. Never knew you had graduated to literary english. You hit the nail on the head when you say that only when you undergo trials and tribulations (look up the meaning now), do you value you the sweet taste of success. Darkness helps us understand light. We have always had our joy interspersed with moments of difficulties. Enough of procrastination (dictionary again), do the things that you always wanted to do. Chill, watch movies, read good books. Great work with the blog, keep going.....

Aks said...

As everyone above has rightly said.. Love ure attitude to take it all in your stride and still never falter in your steps. Definetely there is another sunshine you have to be seeing which will make this wait all worthwhile..
And very well written! I am majorly impressed.. Awesome job girl! Waiting to read lots more! :)

Sahil said...

" A bit of calamity, now thats the stuff that makes it interesting." I wonder why would YOU put this down. I thought you believed that change is the spice of life. Do you really require a calamity to make life interesting? This is what I have been thinking about. Lets see... I might grow wiser :)